August 29, 2008

The NFL is on its way!

If you want to predict that the Dallas Cowboys are going to go 10-6 this year and get second in the division to the Eagles, that's your own business (see this week's Sports Illustrated).  However, please be consistent about it.

At the beginning of the NFL Preview section of the issue, Dr. Z lays out his predictions for every team in the league.  He (rightly, I believe) has New England as the NFL's best team, and winning the Super Bowl.  He lists the Cowboys as going 10-6, making the playoffs as a wildcard behind the NFC-East champion Philadelphia Eagles (with a 12-4 record).  Then, in each team's individual breakdown, we find that Dallas is graded higher overall than both New England and Philadelphia.  In the articles previewing the team, the Cowboys are spoken of very highly.  Dr. Z even goes so far as to say, "Dallas had the most talented team in the NFL before [Adam 'Pacman'] Jones arrived, and now it is even more so."  Make predictions all you want, but don't contradict yourself all over the place. C'mon.

My prediction, in case anyone's interested, is that Dallas will go 13-3 (a very optimistic number, I admit).  They will go 4-2 in the division (losing one apiece to Philly and Washington), and will lose at Pittsburgh on December 7.  They'll win at least one post-season game, and most likely will represent the NFC in the Super Bowl.  You heard it here first, folks.

August 24, 2008

Video

For some AWESOME videos of my nephew being a stud, go to my sister-in-law's blog.

On a completely different note, I think it's funny to watch olympic athletes parading around the track during the opening and closing ceremonies (perhaps the most watched events worldwide ever) with their own video cameras, filming everything they're experiencing.

August 21, 2008

Snow in August?

Last week was pretty busy for us.  Our friend Amanda was able to visit for a couple of days, which was truly wonderful.  We hadn't seen her in more than a year, and she's a pretty great friend.  We hung out, relaxed, and watched the olympics.  After Amanda left, my youngest brother Jase arrived for an evening (we're his customary stop on his way from California to school at Iowa State).  It was great to see him and hear about his summer trip to Turkey (you can read about that here).  The day after Jase left, we had one more summer trip to take...

Elizabeth and I spent last weekend in Breckenridge, Colorado, with Elizabeth's folks (Mike & Deede) and her brother (Clay).  We stayed in a cabin high in the mountains.  While it was raining all weekend long here in Denver, it was snowing and hailing in Breckenridge.  I think there was a little bit of disappointment for most of our crew, because we had been excited about checking out some of the shops downtown, and doing some hiking... but we actually were able to fit both of those things in even with the weather.  I loved it.  It was about 45 degrees out on Saturday.  Elizabeth and I spent some time in the hot tub.  Elizabeth and Deede did most of the cooking for us (Mike grilled burgers and brats on Sunday night).  The food was great, the atmosphere was great, and it was much more relaxed and life-giving than either Elizabeth or I had anticipated.  We had brought some board games, and the cabin was equipped with an air-hockey table (I won the family tournament), a pool table, and a foos-ball table (oh, and a kitchen table).  When we weren't playing games, we were watching olympics (seeing Michael Phelps become the coolest olympic athlete of all time, or something like that).  Time seemed to crawl by, which was absolutely great.  We weren't rushed for anything all weekend long (until Monday morning when we had to hurry-up and get out so Elizabeth and I could get to our jobs here in town).  If there's a prerequisite I'm going to have for all of my future vacations, it will be to not be rushed.  Not having to worry about the passing of time does wonders for one's soul.  I hope we get to do it again someday.  Thanks to my family-in-laws for being great vacation pals!

(by the way, my chocolate cookie was fantastic)

August 9, 2008

Smoking

Today I wished that smoking wasn't bad for you.  There are quite a few residents of our apartment complex who are smokers, and they have multiple 10-minute breaks built into their day where they basically sit outside on the ground or on a lawn chair with nothing to do except think and smoke.  It would provide opportunities for relationship-building, and for just taking some time out to relax and put things in perspective.  Not being a smoker, it's hard to find little breaks in my day like that.

August 7, 2008

Shopping

I want to start by saying that I'd really like to hear arguments from anyone who refuses to shop at Wal-Mart on ethical principles.  I've asked a few people to tell me about their moral qualms with the store and I have yet to receive a satisfactory response.  It makes me nervous, because if there are people who don't shop there because of ethical reasons, then maybe I'm unethical by shopping there... but I don't know it!

Now for the real post...

Elizabeth and I don't have a lot of money.  We take advantage of a church-run program called Manna, which gives away clothing, haircuts, minor medical treatment, games & toys for little ones, and our favorite -- groceries -- to low-income families and seminary students (which are often one and the same).  We also take advantage of our campus food closet which gets stocked (mostly with non-perishables) about twice a month.  Lastly, we take advantage of what's called the bread shed -- a little shed on campus where each week a volunteer drops off various kinds of bread from Safeway that is past its "sell by" date.  Beyond those three things, we try to shop carefully.  The following is the story of our Wednesday night grocery-shopping experience.

We shop mainly at Wal-Mart.  It's cheap.  It has everything.  It's nearby.  It's also TERRIBLY annoying.  It's always jam-packed with people.  We have to wait in long lines.  I swear that not one of the 5,000 carts in the store works completely properly.  Last night we spent some time looking through advertisements from the other two local supermarkets, King Soopers, and Safeway.  We wanted to make sure we were getting the best deals on the things we needed to buy.  This was to be the first real time since we got married that we would go straight from one store to the other to the other in order to compare prices easily and accurately.  Wal-Mart was our first stop.  We got everything we needed except the few items we'd found for less at the other two places.  We had a loud, wobbly cart.  We waited in line for at least 10 minutes.  Our checker had no personality, but the transaction went completely smoothly (as always) because their system is easy and hassle-free.

Next we drove to Safeway.  The store was almost deserted.  Our cart was silent, and it rode completely straight.  The aisles were well-kept and the produce section had a huge, fresh selection.  The "good deals" we'd seen in the ads were misleading.  We spent at least, if not more, on the items we bought there as we would have at Wal-Mart.  Every item we thought to check prices on "just out of curiosity" we had found cheaper at Wal-Mart.  We didn't have to wait in line, but we did walk up to the only check-out counter with its lights on and no one was around.  An employee saw us looking like we needed help and she said, "Do you need help finding anything?"  My wife answered pleasantly, "Nope, we just need to check-out."  The employee responded curtly, "Well all you needed to do was holler."  Then she scanned our items.  I scanned my debit card.  The checker, annoyed, said, "What about your Safeway card?  It needs to come first."  I scanned my Safeway card.  "No, now you need to hand it to me," she complained.  I did.  She scanned it and handed it back.  "Now you scan your debit card."  I did.  Nothing happened.  I hadn't told the machine that I was paying by debit card.  I did.  I scanned my card for a third time.  Success!

Finally, we headed to King Soopers.  Soopers was nearly empty as well.  It was well-kept like Safeway.  The items were also more expensive than Wal-Mart, and some of them were more expensive than Safeway.  The advertisements had again been misleading.  The roll of pizza dough in the ad (complete with picture) for $1 was actually $1.89 (56 cents more expensive than Wal-Mart), while the one half the size of the one in the picture was $1.  We got our items and headed for the check-out.  The check-out lines are set up awkwardly.  You have to wheel your cart (or set your items) around to the side that the checker is on, then go around to the other side of the post while they unload your cart and scan your items.  Their card-scanning machine was much easier to use than Safeway's.  I got through without any hassle, and without a word from the employee.  She handed me my receipt and politely said, "You saved $2.17 with us today.  Have a good night."  As we walked away Elizabeth pointed out, "We would have saved more than that at Wal-Mart."

The whole experience made us decide that it's not even worth it to look for deals in the paper.  Wal-Mart is almost always going to cost less, and when it doesn't, it'll be just a few cents more expensive than the other guy's sale items.  I'll deal with the people, the crappy carts, the lines, and the personality-less employees.  I'd rather have that than higher prices, club-cards that don't mean anything (I've been to King Soopers four times in the last year.  The first three times when I got to the checkout line they asked, "Do you have a Soopers card?" and when I said, "No," they scanned a new one and handed it to me.  Tell me why I need one), and employees with negative personalities.  Until a store proves to be better than Wal-Mart, I'll shop there.

August 2, 2008

Marriage

Today my wife and I took part in a focus group for a little company who offers marriage-class type things in order to help marriages be stronger.  They utilize horses and dancing as two unique forms of learning about relationships and marriage.  It's really sort of cool.

During the focus group, we were asked, "Is there a difference between marriage and long-term committed relationships?"  One woman who has gone through a divorce and is now in a "long-term committed relationship" who is not a Christian immediately answered, "Only legally."  Marriage, according to her, is simply a piece of paper that gives a couple certain governmental rights and recognition.  Inside I was fuming.

That's all.